Tuesday, June 5, 2012
TMI Tuesday - Kink
1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically? I'm not really sure I'm all that kinky, other then I have a high sex drive and am willing to do just about anything once.
2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they? I like to watch gay porn, especially first time stuff. Also, I've been known to look at furry porn, but not fur suits. Sex in public, though we haven't...yet.
3. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it? Tell us more… Never in the heat of the moment, and a few times when I was a kid. I don't think it's my cup of tea because it doesn't turn me on mentally at all. I sort of don't understand it. I mean, I understand that it feels good to people, some how..
4. Have you been tied up, or tied someone else up? Did you use rope or restraints? Several times. Amber and I have an under the bed restrain system, and we don't use it all the time though. Just special occasions.
5. Would you classify yourself as more dominant, submissive, a switch or entirely vanilla? I've actually never heard of a switch, but I think that's what I am. I love being submissive and letting Amber take charge and not knowing what is going to happen next. But I also love to strap it on and give it to her in as many ways as I can.
6. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done? I'm not sure, probably masturbated somewhere publicly, like a library. Watched porn in public. Not sure if that's really kinky or not.
7. Have you been to a BDSM club? What was it like? If not, would you ever go to one? We've never been to one, and I'm not sure if we would. Amber's a bit more private about things, for instance, I couldn't get her to a strip club when we lived in Portland. Also, BDSM is a little extreme for me.
8. What’s your favourite fetish item or implement? Probably my harness. Eventually I'm going to get one from Outlaw Leather, the Annie-O. I've been lusting over that for a long time.
9. Favourite kinky clothing material? Naked!
10. Thigh boots – love ‘em or hate ‘em? Never tried them, but I can appreciate them on someone else, but I don't think I'd like wearing them. Seems like they would be really hot and restrictive.
11. If you’re kinky, who knows about it? Do you tell people or is it a closely guarded secret? I'm pretty open sexually with anyone.
12. What are your personal limits? I'm not sure I have any.
13. What’s your safeword and why did you choose that one? Don't have one, but Amber and I don't do anything that requires one..yet.
14. Which fetishes do you just really not get? Several; fisting, spanking, old people porn (not sure that counts, lol) incest, diapers, pee/water works just to name a few.
Bonus: Complete this sentence: To me, Fetish, Kink and BDSM means…Anything to do with sex beyond a male with a female missionary sex.